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Category Archives: Parenting Effective Discipline

Bullying Reflects Problems in Adult Society Part 3

Parenting Effective DisciplineBy cynthiaApril 22, 2013Leave a comment

By Daisaku Ikeda Part 3 The rapid changes in society have left children exposed to intense forms of stress. The cold and unforgiving logic of the adult world is applied unmediated to the lives of children, who are subjected to excessive degrees of competition, selection, ranking and standardization. The dysfunction so evident in school bullying…

Bullying Reflects Problems in Adult Society Part 2

Parenting Effective DisciplineBy cynthiaApril 19, 2013Leave a comment

BY DAISAKU IKEDA How could anyone imagine there are people in the world who deserve to be bullied? Bullying is a base and vicious act that can never and must never be legitimated. People are not bullied because they are weak. Rather, bullying reflects the inner weakness of the perpetrators, their inability to resist their…

Bullying Reflects Problems in Adult Society Part 1

Parenting Effective DisciplineBy cynthiaApril 19, 2013Leave a comment

By DAISAKU IKEDA Disturbing incidents of bullying continue to make the news. We hear daily of the tragedy of children who, unable to endure the harassment and violence inflicted on them by peers and classmates, are driven to suicide. It is heartbreaking to think of the pain and despair that would cause a child to…

“Just do your best.”

Parenting Effective DisciplineBy cynthiaApril 12, 2013Leave a comment

Recently, I was talking to a coaching client and we had a very thought provoking conversation about saying to kids, “All I expect is for you to do your best.” My defiant inner child responded by thinking, “What if I don’t want to do my best? Why do I always have to do my best?…

Solve Problems through Creative Parenting Pt. 3

Parenting Effective DisciplineBy cynthiaApril 11, 2013Leave a comment

Creative Parenting Wins Cooperation Pt. 3 Most parents I coach have never learned that their own thoughts get in the way of solving problems with their kids. Here is how you can shift your thinking and teach kids how to think about and solve challenges. Remember that discipline means to teach. To problem solve and…

Creative Parenting Wins Cooperation Pt. 2

Parenting Effective DisciplineBy cynthiaApril 8, 2013Leave a comment

The parent-child interaction is like an equation. In this equation, a= actions, t = thinking, p = parents, c = child. Therefore, the parent-child interaction equation is: (pt + pa) influences (ct + ca). You can only influence your child’s side of the equation by changing your side of the equation. Attempting direct control through…

Creative Parening Wins Cooperation Pt 1

Parenting Effective DisciplineBy cynthiaApril 4, 2013Leave a comment

This article is published in the April 2013 issue of Parenting on the Peninsula magazine. Part 1 of 3. How often have you said the same words to your daughter or son over and over with the same results? The results are that there is no desired change. Maybe your words had an impact when…

Don’t Parent From Fear and Control

Parenting Effective DisciplineBy cynthiaMarch 30, 2013Leave a comment

“How do I get my daughter / son to clean their room?” “How do I get my kids to stop fighting?” “How do I get my child to do their homework and stop chatting on the internet?” Do you notice a pattern from these common questions parents ask? It is “how do I control my…

Does Your Teenager or Child Decide or Do You?

Parenting Effective DisciplineBy cynthiaMarch 27, 2013Leave a comment

Determining Who Makes the Final Decision with Kids of All Ages Before engaging in solving a problem involving your teen, it is very important to first determine who will be making the final decision on what solution to choose. Will it be you, your teen or the both of you together? Whoever owns the problem;…

Experience: Mom of 10-year-old Son Listens Rather Than Ignores

Parenting Effective DisciplineBy cynthiaMarch 14, 2013Leave a comment

I get very frustrated with my 10 year-old son. He is very smart, thinks about ideas and always wants answers to his questions. He also expresses his emotions often which are difficult to hear. Many times I am in a rush and I just don’t have time so I get angry with him. I think,…

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Terms of Use: The articles in my blog are a matter of my opinion and perspective, offered to help stimulate parents' thinking about their child raising and common concerns, conflicts, and changes that typically occur. They are meant to be educational only. Because they are general in nature, they should NOT be used as a substitute for getting qualified professional psychological, medical, or legal help should serious need arise. The resources I recommend are mostly consistent with my parenting approach. Use them at your own discretion as you would my articles. The parents’ success stories are particular to their family situation. This does not mean that you would get the same results. They are to be used for inspiration that by you changing first, you have the greatest chance of creating a positive change in your family.

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