I see life as a continuous journey of developing my emotional intelligence. Relationships blossom when people emotionally connected. I believe parents play a large part in their children’s emotional development by how proficient they are in listening to and empathizing with their children. This requires parents own continual self-reflection and self-improvement. Daniel Goleman, the author…
DetailsHoward Gardner’s definition of intelligence A biopsychological potential to process information that can be activated in a cultural setting to solve problems or create products that are of value in a culture. “This modest change in wording is important because it suggests that intelligences are not things that can be seen or counted. Instead,…
DetailsHow Are You Smart? Here is an easy way to start thinking about your multiple intelligences based on Howard Gardner’s theory. Please note that this is not an authorized evaluation. Just to have fun. Based on Howard Gardner’s theory of Multiple Intelligences (Adult version) Rate yourself with the scale below for the following statements Rarely…
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In my teen webinar series, week 1, we discussed how we need to shift our inflexible thinking to flexible thinking in order to be able to problem solve together with kids. When we stay stuck, then the wall goes up between us and our kids. No solutions can be found. It is up to parents…
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Today I started my 7 week webinar series. Is My Teen Crazy or Am I? Be the Anchor in Their Storm. Everyone is going to make amazing changes. Continual growth happens when you learn new skills and you practice so you can replace old and ineffective habits. Our theme is Embrace Your Teen. One topic…
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Part 2 Breaking Connection: Many of these beliefs are inbred in culture. They do not lead to connection and closeness in families. Which do you want to work on discarding? I am uncomfortable looking at my own shortcomings or asking for support from others. Children are bad and need to be”taught” how to be good.…
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Breaking Connection: Many of these beliefs are inbred in culture. They do not lead to connection and closeness in families. Which do you want to work on discarding? I need to control or please my child in order to make her/him into a good adult. Parents are right because they are the adult and…
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Nebraska Office of Education 6.14.2012 There is overwhelming evidence that a parent’s involvement in a child’s education makes a very positive difference. In the past, often an unstated assumption was made that parent involvement meant mothers involvement. Research shows that the involvement of fathers, however, no matter their income or cultural background, can play a…
DetailsTeens and parents can have amazing times together. Also, teens can feel the family is at risk when arguing occurs. Listen to this young mans’ amazing story about his experience with his two moms. WATCH: Teen Will Have You Cheering for His Two Moms | Advocate.com.
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Most of us experienced disrespectful parenting when we were raised. That seems to be our default strategy. Often parents tell me how upset they get with themselves when they yell, pull their child, or threaten them. The frustration gets overwhelming and they lose it. When we are about to lose it, this means we have…
DetailsTerms of Use: The articles in my blog are a matter of my opinion and perspective, offered to help stimulate parents' thinking about their child raising and common concerns, conflicts, and changes that typically occur. They are meant to be educational only. Because they are general in nature, they should NOT be used as a substitute for getting qualified professional psychological, medical, or legal help should serious need arise. The resources I recommend are mostly consistent with my parenting approach. Use them at your own discretion as you would my articles. The parents’ success stories are particular to their family situation. This does not mean that you would get the same results. They are to be used for inspiration that by you changing first, you have the greatest chance of creating a positive change in your family.