I was the youngest of three kids and the only girl in my family. What I remember most from my childhood is saying, “Mommy, Peter’s picking on me!” One time, I got so angry with my older brother that I chased him with a pair of scissors and stabbed his bedroom door as he slammed…
DetailsI’m a divorced mom of a 9 year-old daughter and 7 year-old son. I contacted Cynthia for private parenting coaching due to challenges with my 9-year-old daughter. My daughter often complained about her younger brother and needed constant validation that I loved her just as much as her brother. She would frequently get upset, say…
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Listening with Empathy Leads to Daughter’s Optimistic Thinking Below is a letter written to me by a client of mine: Corey. She had a breakthrough with her daughter, (one of two children, ages 7 & 9)…and wanted to share it with us. Hi everyone, My daughter, Beth, is 9 and very strong-willed which can lead…
DetailsKnowing how to support each other emotionally and then solve problems together, is a vital element of parenting as a team. In my previous blog, The First Step to a Successful Parenting Team, I stressed the importance of using the Collaborative Problem-Solving Process to find solutions together. Because this article explores the third step, Discuss…
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Effective team parenting is a key ingredient for a happy relationship between two parents… Remember, you both love your children and you both want the best for them. Stress and conflict arise, though, when you have different views on what raising them looks like and how to best accomplish this goal. It’s important to learn…
DetailsBuilding Self-Esteem and Personal Power – Online Class presented by Cynthia Klein from Parents Place Thursday, May 17, 1:00 pm – 2:00 pm PST Online, $25 Discover the 4 main qualities to develop in your children for high self-esteem. Then, learn ways you are strengthening their self-perception and ways you may be weakening their self-perception.…
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An essential FREE parenting workshop for EVERY parent of teens. Get the information and support your teen needs you to have. Thursday, May 3, 2018, 6:30 in Foster City, CA. Presented by Cynthia Klein, author of Ally Parenting: A Non-Adversarial Approach to Transform Conflict Into Cooperation Finding the Middle Ground with Your Teenager – How…
DetailsWhen your child isn’t talking with you about their challenges, it’s time to reflect on what you are saying that is contributing to their silence. They aren’t trusting you enough to share with you. Rather than trying to get them to open up with questions, which feels like an interrogation, learn about the Supporter Parenting…
DetailsMany couples have challenges. Sharon Mead, LMFT, has created an amazing video to explain how to create greater harmony in your couple relationship. See her message below. I created a video for a client audience that explains the workings of the rigid self-perpetuating cycle that couples get into driven by attachment needs and fears. This…
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Books That Can Help Children Manage Their Anxiety Anxiety disorders in children are not uncommon; in fact, some studies indicate that as many as 1 in 8 children experience anxiety that impedes their social, personal and academic functioning. Children with anxiety disorders will often try to avoid situations they perceive as threatening or in which…
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