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When Kids Contribute, it Builds Their Self-Esteem

Parenting - Educating ChildrenBy cynthiaAugust 26, 2022Leave a comment

Last week I talked about teaching your children social skills. Please keep in mind that it’s a process for them to learn these values and skills so don’t judge them because they haven’t acquired them yet. The actual test of whether they have learned these skills without your reminders will be when they are over…

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What social skills are you teaching your kids?

Communication Skills, Parenting Teens and Young AdultsBy cynthiaAugust 17, 2022Leave a comment

Many parents have given up on teaching social skills because there are so many examples of poor social skills everywhere. I encourage you to persevere in the mindset of teaching skills rather than getting annoyed if your children are not exhibiting them already.   Also, think about what you are showing in your actions. I…

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Personal Care and Safety are Important to Learn

UncategorizedBy cynthiaAugust 12, 2022Leave a comment

Did you take the quick Limit Setting Skill Level Quiz last week? If not,  I encourage you to do it now. It will only take a few minutes yet it will be very helpful in understanding the exact words you are using that causes your kids not to cooperate.   Last week I was talking…

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Will your kids be ready to leave the nest?

UncategorizedBy cynthiaAugust 5, 2022Leave a comment

A very common fear is whether your kids will be able to take care of themselves when they leave home. Will they make good choices? Will they be able to manage their money? Will they choose good friends? Will they shop for healthy foods, cook, clean,  and take care of themselves?   There are so…

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Kids Need Appropriate Time Alone

UncategorizedBy cynthiaJune 1, 2022Leave a comment

The unhealthy or negative approach to the goal of Withdrawal is Undue Avoidance. The healthy or positive approach is Appropriate Avoidance. A key feeling you may have that alerts you to the unhealthy approach is a feeling of Helplessness.   I’ve spoken with parents whose children have become so discouraged and their self-esteem so low…

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Thoughts on Being a Good Mom

UncategorizedBy cynthiaMay 18, 2022Leave a comment

I feel compelled to tell you the story about my mother since we just had Mother’s Day. All my life I had a hard time finding a Mother’s Day card that represented my relationship with my mother. I didn’t want to lie and say that my mother was wonderful, that she was always there for…

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How Parents Approach School Misbehavior Effectively

UncategorizedBy cynthiaMay 5, 2022Leave a comment

I was coaching a client today with a 7-year-old who is having big challenges with his behavior at school. The parents wanted to know how to make the boy know how seriously wrong his behavior was. They wanted to know if I would recommend taking something away or grounding him.    They were asking how…

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When Your Child Misbehaves at School: How to respond?

UncategorizedBy cynthiaMarch 9, 2022Leave a comment

It’s challenging to respond to a teacher’s negative report about your child. Yikes! Your feelings of embarrassment, that you should be able to control your child, could make you want to punish your child in some way. You may think, how can I make him suffer so he knows that I don’t want him acting…

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2 Unique Ways to Show Appreciation

6 Ways to Teach Your Kids Appreciation

UncategorizedBy cynthiaDecember 2, 2021Leave a comment

Let’s go beyond “Please” and “Thank You” It’s common to tell your kids, “say thank you”, “say please”, and to “ask me when you want to go to a friend’s house rather than telling me.” I’m sure you have many more directions that you give your kids to mold them into being appreciative children. You…

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The Best Way to Keep Your Child and Teen Talking

UncategorizedBy cynthiaSeptember 30, 2021Leave a comment

It’s confusing to know what to say when your child is expressing sadness, fear, anxiety, loneliness, or other emotion about a personal challenge they are facing. Most of us have not been trained on talking about our own emotions much less how to respond to our child’s emotions. It’s typical to respond in ways that…

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Terms of Use: The articles in my blog are a matter of my opinion and perspective, offered to help stimulate parents' thinking about their child raising and common concerns, conflicts, and changes that typically occur. They are meant to be educational only. Because they are general in nature, they should NOT be used as a substitute for getting qualified professional psychological, medical, or legal help should serious need arise. The resources I recommend are mostly consistent with my parenting approach. Use them at your own discretion as you would my articles. The parents’ success stories are particular to their family situation. This does not mean that you would get the same results. They are to be used for inspiration that by you changing first, you have the greatest chance of creating a positive change in your family.

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