Around 40 parents came tonight to the Redwood City, CA Boys and Girls club. This was amazing considering this is Giants country and this was game 1 against the Detroit Tigers. Our focus was on how to discipline rather than punish their children. Many were Spanish speakers and listened through headset translations.Whether English or Spanish…
DetailsI received some great insights from my question why is there a resistance to parent education? One idea is that people are uncomfortable with change. It is easier to stay the same even if the situation makes everyone unhappy. The unwillingness to change seems to be a major barrier to receiving parent education. Another concept…
DetailsIf you want to get into a hot debate, then talk about religion, politics or parenting. There is a tremendous amount of emotions connected to parenting. Most parents feel that they should know how to parent automatically and have control over how their children behave. This belief in control over them can flow into a…
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During a divorce, it is common for parent education to be recommended or required. I believe in dads and am dedicated to teach them how to bring out their best dad qualities. Dads want their time with their kids to be harmonious and cooperative. The question is, what parenting approach builds a cooperative environment. I…
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In my work as a private parenting instructor, I have had wives bring in their husbands asking me to teach them a more gentle way of parenting. Often the complaint is that the husband is too critical with the children. One wife complained that her husband threatened their young daughter that she “wouldn’t live past…
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Last Wednesday, October 10, 2012, I spoke at the East Menlo Park Boys and Girls Club on the San Francisco Peninsula. My topic was Winning Kids Over without Punishments or Rewards. Here is a picture of parents discussing concepts together so the new information is truly learned. Here are a few points from my talk.…
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This past Thursday, October 11, 2012 I spoke at Stanford University on Enhancing Emotional Intelligence in the Family. This was my 11th talk sponsored by Stanford’s Work/Life Program. I based my talk on Daniel Goleman’s 4 areas of Emotional Intelligence. •EMOTIONAL SELF-AWARENESS •MANAGING EMOTIONS •EMPATHY – READING EMOTIONS •HANDLING RELATIONSHIPS . My focus was on…
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We are emotional beings. Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence, suggests that our emotional intelligence is even more important than intellectual intelligence to live a successful life. We enter this world interacting from our limbic system which is our emotional center. All feelings are stored there in our long term memory only to be retriggered…
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I receive the Six Seconds newsletter. Here is the post to follow for some amazing books for children. I’ll be sharing this information when I speak at Stanford on October 11, 2012 about Emotional Intelligence. Here are this week’s posts from Six Seconds – The Emotional Intelligence Network: 6 Children’s Storybooks Every Emotionally Intelligent Adult…
Detailsby Cynthia Klein, Certified Parent Educator Planning ahead is key to having successful times and outings with children. Just “winging it” can lead to disaster. Here is a partial checklist of preparations and parenting knowledge which are important for creating a successful outing. The more “Yeses”, the brighter your rainbow will glow. Preparation: ¨ Did…
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