My teenager will not: smoke, do drugs, drink alcohol, be sexually active or rude. School, grades and college will be important. What a great fantasy this is! No problems, no hassles and no fear! Instead, what about expecting that your teenager will do drugs, smoke, have sex, be rude to you and drop out of…
DetailsMy teenager will not: smoke, do drugs, drink alcohol, be sexually active or rude. School, grades and college will be important. What a great fantasy this is! No problems, no hassles and no fear! Instead, what about expecting that your teenager will do drugs, smoke, have sex, be rude to you and drop out of…
DetailsIf our children simply did everything we told them, followed the wisdom we handed them, wouldn’t parenting be a cinch? The muddiness inherent to parenting doesn’t come from a lack of love, but rather in not understanding our impact on our children and how to get our messages across. For many years I struggled against…
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