Top Ten Back-to-School Tips from Challenge Success
By Cynthia Klein — Family Happiness Expert,
Bridges 2 Understanding
Top Ten Back-to-School Tips to Help your Child
Thrive in School This Year
1. Ask your child: “How was your day? Learn anything interesting? Get to spend time with friends?” instead of “How did you do on the math test?”
2. Resist the urge to correct the errors in your child’s homework. It’s your child’s work, not yours.
3. Work done with integrity is more important than an A. Pressure to achieve only high grades can make students resort to cheating.
4. Make time for PDF: playtime, downtime, family time. Research shows PDF is critical for overall well-being.
5. Create a technology-free environment during mealtimes. Every adult and child can benefit from a break from constant interruptions and distractions.
6. Collaborate with your child’s teachers. Assume best intentions and work together to solve problems.
7. Fight the temptation to bring your child’s forgotten homework to school. Kids gain resilience by learning from small failures.
8. An extra hour of sleep is more valuable than an extra hour of studying. Research shows sleep deprivation can be associated with depression and anxiety.
9. When your child wants to talk with you, stop what you are doing and engage. Does “I hate school” really mean something else: “I am being bullied” or “I don’t fit in?”
10. Help your child develop his or her interests and strengths. Discover what your child really loves to do outside of school, not what you think a college admissions officer would like to see on an application.
Challenge Success is an amazing organization. Their fall parent education night in on September 30 from 7 – 8:30. It’s called, Media Rules: Healthy Connections in the Digital Age.
Go to their website to register. I’ll be there along with my husband, Bill.
To REGISTER: http://www.challengesuccess.org/
Get your tickets now!
About Challenge Success
Strategies for Healthy, Engaged Kids and Stronger Schools
At Challenge Success, we believe that our society has become too focused on grades, test scores, and performance, leaving little time for kids to develop the necessary skills to become resilient, ethical, and motivated learners. We provide schools and families with the information and strategies they need to create a more balanced and academically fulfilling life for their kids. Learn more about our impact, how to support our mission, and our book, Overloaded and Underprepared: Strategies for Stronger Schools and Healthy, Successful Kids. Challenge Success is a non-profit organization affiliated with the Stanford University Graduate School of Education.
Presented on Cynthia Klein’s website bridges2understanding.com. Cynthia is a certified parenting educator.
Cynthia Klein’s mission is to contribute to World Peace and building healthy family relationships is the place to begin. As a parenting expert for over 30 years, parents have learned from Cynthia how to communicate more effectively as an ally rather than an adversary. Her unique Family Harmony System teaches parents of 5 and older how to have open dialogue, solve problems together, support one another, and build mutual respect. Cynthia is the author of Ally Parenting and the video-based self-paced programWin, Win, Win, Parenting. She has presented over 700 talks and coached hundreds of parents privately towards greater family connection and harmony. To learn more about her services of coaching and speaking, contact Cynthia Klein at , visit her website atbridges2understanding.com.
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